There was a similar occurrence a few years ago when I was
building a new dock to replace one that was getting to be a
tad rickety. It was a cold, windy, afternoon in late April
and I was in my driveway nailing the top boards to a 10 foot
by 4 foot frame that I had just built, when a former co-worker
of mine from Rochester drove in the driveway. As soon
as he got out of his car I began to complain about how cold
and windy it was and how my hands were freezing and how I had
to stay out in the cold to finish this dock and that this
time of the year it seems like I have more work than I can
handle......etc, etc, etc. In response, he turned around to
face the lake, held out his arms, and said "Yes, but look at
what you have for an office". That put things into
perspective and I quit complaining.
You know, contrary to what my friend sometimes thinks, I haven't lost my appreciation of the lake or of the Northland. But I think maybe I'm not in awe of it anymore! Or perhaps I've become just a little bit numb to it. But neither of those things are the same as "not appreciating it". I've lived here a tad more than twenty-five years. For the first year I couldn't walk through my living room without pausing to look at the lake through the picture window. Every time I was in that room, the view grabbed me by the shirt collar and made me stop and look at it. After a year or so I quit doing that.......but I still have the same appreciation for it. In fact, I think I actually appreciate it more than I did at first. I'm just relaxed and confident enough, so that now I don't have to wring all the enjoyment I can out of it, every chance I get. I can enjoy it in a gentler and quieter manner. But even with that knowledge, it's still nice when a customer or a friend from down south says something that puts things back into perspective again, and makes me really FEEL how nice it is to live Up North. Incidently, Autumn is a nice quiet time of the year around here and a good time to relax and enjoy being Up North. I have cabins available for weekday or weekend rentals. If you're interested in renting one of them, send me an e-mail or give me a call. |